We all know that being gay and single ain’t easy. I’ve been on Grindr for years and while it did satisfy my corporeal needs it was terribly lacking in people that were serious. I went to OkCupid and while it was better I was still
Many people say if you are suspicious that your local lover just wants you for a green card you shouldn’t go through with the marriage. I, however, don’t agree with that sentiment. Any sensible person should be suspicious of someone who has something to gain
Let me start by saying this guide applies to almost any gay dating service or app. I just said grindr because that’s what most guys search for on google. About a year ago I had a large African American gentlemen come into my counseling office
Here’s a secret: No amount of relationship advice will help you get the loving fulfilling relationship that you deserve if you don’t have the power over your own mind! Sadly, we gay men have serious problems with self-discipline and control. Gay Men Are: 2 times
Behind that catty & cocky image many of us like to present is a cynical and depressed man. That was certainly the case for me and many other gay men. Gay depression is a serious issue! One study found that gay men are three times
The Tale of the Man That Turned 30 A relatively young man came into my office crying one day. I asked him what the problem was and he said his boyfriend didn’t love him anymore. They began dating when he was 19 and the boyfriend
It’s the new millennium that means out with the old and in with the new! As a counselor I generally encourage trying new things since trying new things is what helps shapes who we are as human beings.This case is different though….I strongly advise my
On March 31st A fake Grindr profile was used to arrange meetups late at night in a parking lot. When the victims arrived, the large group of attackers began beating them. One of the victims, aged 28, was admitted to a local hospital following the
A relationship not working out is a sad moment for any person but especially for us gays. We have a hard time as it is finding a partner and when it doesn’t work out it can be absolutely devastating. Click here I’ve worked with hundreds
As a life coach/counselor that specializes in gay relationship advice and teaching gay men how to get a gay conservative partner. There’s almost always one theme that comes up in my office. Seriously, it doesn’t matter whether he’s black, white, Asian, tall, short, fat, or
