THAT’S RACIST! : Some Asians Crying Because White Guys Won’t Date Them
That’s racist! Some Asians Cry Because White Guys Won’t Date Them!
Recently I read an article on queerty where the LGBT Asian community is speaking out against ‘racism’ in the gay community against them. Apparently not being attracted to someone(s) is racist nowadays. Does that also mean gay men are sexist because they’re not attracted to women?
But I’m digressing…
In the article they had a clip of another social justice clip where a white guy tells an Asian (an Indian I believe) that he doesn’t normally date Asians. At the end the Asian is telling the white guy to ‘get woke’ and the white guy has some doofus response that he’s already awake since he’s on adderall.
Of course we all know the idea is that the white guy is just sooo evil because he has a preference and how dare he have a preference because if you have a preference ‘THAT’S RACIST!’
Anti-blackness in the Asian community
I take particular issue with this since the Asian community has a very long string of anti-blackness in its own community. Every Black person in America has heard the horror stories of how some Asian business owners would open shops in Black neighborhoods and mistreat their black customers.
Here is a famous clip of an Asian hair store owner choking a black customer, after punching and kicking her, whom he suspects of shop lifting.
Please don’t embarrass yourself by saying this was an isolated incident either.
A year before that 15 year old Latasha Harlins was shot and killed by an Asian store owner, Soon Ja Du, who suspected her of shoplifting. The jury recommended the maximum sentence for Du. However, the trial judge, Joyce Karlin, didn’t accept the jury’s sentencing recommendation and instead sentenced Du to five years of probation, 400 hours of community service, and a $500 fine.
We blacks have a phrase that fits perfectly: Sweep around your own front door before you sweep around mine.
How many Asians date blacks?
How many Asians that complain that white guys don’t want them have dated Blacks? Anyone that has had any exposure to Asian cultures knows a common theme throughout the Asian diaspora is that ‘white is right’. Many Asians see dark skin as dirty and less than.
I live in Asia and I have experienced it when dating. I get poor guys with no real prospects but a lot of Asians consider me and other blacks as beneath them.
People have a right to their preferences
Social justice warriors who say that have racial preferences is racist actually put their own feet in their mouths by saying a preference against Asians is racist.
In fact as a group Asians are doing better than whites in America and whites globally!
The median annual household income of households headed by Asian Americans is $73,060, compared with $53,600 among all U.S. households
This article on CNN the economic prowess of Asians globally
Step aside, American millionaires.
Your Asian counterparts are now wealthier than you are.
Asian millionaires now control more wealth than their peers in North America, Europe and other regions, according to a new World Wealth Report from Capgemini, a consulting group.
If anything this shows how hard work achieves success regardless of race! If whites are so racist they’ve done a terrible job of keeping the Asian community down.
The real reason why whites aren’t attracted to Asians
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I, of course, am not white so this is just my opinion but I will back it up with research. Most gay men (of any race) are attracted to masculinity and people that look like themselves.
A study released in the Archives of Sexual Behavior journal had a shocking conclusion that gay men of all races are most attracted to masculinized faces. The study also states that gay men’s attraction to masculinized faces is even stronger than that of straight women.
Now what is a masculinized face? A masculine face is one with a strong jaw, high cheekbones, broad/wide forehead combined with more subtle feminine features such as a small/sharp nose, fuller lips, short chin, wide eyes and narrow face and facial hair.
In a survey reported by PinkNews it was revealed that gay men had a stronger preference for men with facial hair.
Lets contrast that with the average Asian physical characteristics:
[Asians] also tend to have less body hair, less facial hair, flatter faces, smaller noses, wider cheekbones, and “shovel-shaped” incisor teeth (slightly scooped out shape of back side of the front teeth).
As you can see the Asian face is in many ways the polar opposite of what most guys find attractive. Notice I said most guys including Asian guys!
Asians share the same sentiments as whites
Most oriental guys in America aren’t attracted to other Asians either. Both Asian women and gay Asian men have strong negative preferences towards their own race. Here’s an answer from an Asian American on the Q&A site Quora:
Broadly speaking, from my experience, within the gay Asian male community, men will fall into three major camps when it comes to dating: 1) “Will only date white men” 2) “Will only date (East) Asian men” and 3) Open to dating other races. The first is the largest, the second following somewhat close behind, and the third being the smallest by a huge margin. Surely, I’m not the only one disturbed by how frequently gay men filter their romantic interests by race and mostly race only. This behavior manifests itself in online dating sites, gay apps, etc, in the form of two words: “No Asians.” (Similar things happen with black guys, by the way.) Some guys even justify their ads by saying that it’s just a “preference” – never mind the fact that they just publicly named an entire race as undesirable. And let’s not even get into how damaging it is to the self-esteem of those who see these two words. I sometimes believe internalizing these issues frequently result in self-loathing, with resulting behaviors that are observed in camp one. That getting the white guy will somehow increase their status within the gay community, so it becomes a competition in this crowd to get a white guy of their own as a trophy. These are all examples of guys I personally know. Some will be more vocal about it, others may not be as self-aware.
In addition in another study of gay & bisexual men almost all them (including the Asian participants) described sex with Asians as ‘boring’ and ‘mechanical’.
To those complaining because they’re not as desirable as they’d like I have some questions.
- Do you say yes to anyone that shows interest or do you accept or reject based on your personal preferences? If so then why shouldn’t they be allowed to do the same?
- Do you feel you have a right to be desired? If so what is the basis for having such a ‘right’?
- What is your end game? What I mean is do you really want someone to date you just because they’ve been shamed into doing so? What would that relationship look like?
Stop overusing racism!
We all know of the tale of the boy that cried wolf. The constant use of the phrase ‘that’s racist!’ to silence those that we disagree with is congruous with the boy that cried wolf. Eventually instances of true racism will fall on desensitized deaf ears.
The election of our president is in part due to the over usage of the term ‘thats racist’!. The constant demonization of others, mostly white people, doesn’t help us and only serves to want the targets of demonization not to want us around.
I fear the “metoo” movement will have the same effect on women. It may cause men to subconsciously or even consciously want to avoid hiring or working with women since maybe 10-20 years down the line she may accuse him of sexual misconduct and ruin his career.
Let me conclude with asking the same question I asked at the beginning of my piece. If having a racial sexual preference is indeed racist then is preferring men over women sexist? Is preferring young over older ‘ageist’? If one prefers a partner with a large or even small penis is that ‘penisism’?
Where does it stop?